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Will my kids be ashamed if I file for bankruptcy?

On Behalf of | Oct 5, 2023 | Bankruptcy

Filing for bankruptcy is a significant decision that can be very emotional. Among the many worries individuals may have about taking this step, the fear of their children feeling ashamed or embarrassed can be particularly distressing.

It’s essential to honor the fact that bankruptcy is a financial strategy designed to provide a fresh start for individuals and families facing overwhelming debt, not a mark of irresponsibility or something to be ashamed of. If you’re thinking about filing for bankruptcy the ways in which you end up talking to your kids about your decision, the process and what comes next could go a long way toward shaping healthy views of bankruptcy regardless of how your kids initially respond to the news.

Talking about bankruptcy

The first step is to communicate with your children in an age-appropriate manner. Depending on their age and understanding, you can explain that bankruptcy is a legal process to help manage financial challenges and facilitate a more stable future.

You can also use this opportunity to teach your children that financial struggles can happen to anyone. Explain that bankruptcy is not a reflection of their worth or the family’s integrity but rather a responsible step to address financial issues. You’ll also want to emphasize that bankruptcy is a tool for achieving financial stability. Highlight the relief it brings from unmanageable debt and the potential for a more secure financial foundation moving forward.

By discussing bankruptcy in these ways, you can demonstrate financial responsibility (NOT failing – remember, bankruptcy is nothing to be ashamed of) and your willingness to address financial challenges head-on. This modeling can be a valuable life lesson for your children. They can learn that it’s essential to take action when facing financial difficulties rather than avoiding or ignoring them and that taking action is a sign of strength, not weakness.